I have always tried to stay a little childish so that I can enjoy the moments completely and stay true to myself and others just like babies. My maturity level generally depends on the situations and the person I am dealing with. But recently I can see myself changing a lot, maybe that is part of growing up or maybe that has something to do with “25” [yeah! When I read somewhere I am 25 years old, I get this responsible and grown up kind of a feeling, its kinda milestone set in my mind.] or maybe the things that life/marriage has taught me with time. Whatever the reasons are ultimately what matters is “I am learning”.
Lets see the changes I feel I am going through:
I can listen to people more patiently, though I still have a threshold.
I observe more.
I try and put my heart in things that I don’t love to do neither do they harm me but makes my closer ones happy.Being a part of Indian Society, where everything you has an impact on your family members, this is something I am really still learning.
I am more responsible now at least I feel so.
I make more lists now.
I am much more organized person which explains the point above.
I have found my own way of being happy without any company.
I can judge what is better for me and take decisions accordingly.
I have learnt to say NO.
Unlike the times when I wanted everyone in this world to wish and celebrate/party hard on my birthday, this time I switched off my Facebook birthday notification so that I receive only genuine wishes and celebrated my birthday with my close ones, relaxing and unwinding myself.
This time my hubby took me to Chandigarh which was a surprise I got in morning, you should have seen me I was jumping with joy.Oh, by the way I was getting a surprise daily from week, so it was a Special Birthday Week for me.
In Chandigarh, I shopped my heart out and had lot of fun. We went for a couple dinner alone after ages and what a crazy crowd it was at Peddlers, In all it was an amazing and a very special birthday “WEEK” for me.
|Went to temple, Coconut water early morning, |
Birthday Shopping,Chocolate Surprise
|Off to Chandigarh 😀|
|Bowling Time, it was fun.|
|Manchurian with Rice and cold coffee.|
It was delicious.
|Ready for Dinner|
|Finally, the birthday pastry.|
|Friends surprised me at home.|
~ Live Love Laugh ~